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As outlined by the USAV Indoor Rulebook, only team coaches and the designated game captain are authorized to communicate with match officials during a game (see sections 5.1 and 5.2). We ask that MVSA parents and non-captain athletes refrain from speaking to or directing comments towards referees and match officials. This helps maintain an atmosphere of respect and fairness for everyone involved.

It’s essential that coaches, too, adhere to this guideline. Coaches who are not rostered participants for a specific match should avoid interacting with officials during the match to prevent even the appearance of impropriety. After the match, coaches may discuss any concerns with officials, but during the game, it's important that only the coach and team captain handle communication.

Imagine for a moment if a crowd of people showed up at your school or workplace and loudly criticized every judgement you made, yet failed to acknowledge any of your efforts. That’s a situation no one would want to be in, and unfortunately, this is something that many officials face on a regular basis.

Many of these officials work long, demanding hours for minimal recognition or respect, often being subject to harsh criticism for decisions that may or may not be controversial. However, it’s crucial to remember that the vast majority of their calls are made correctly, and they deserve our respect. In the fast-paced world of competitive sports, it’s easy to get caught up in the moment, but let’s also keep in mind the humanity of the individuals on the other side of the whistle.

So, when you feel the need to speak with an official, especially when they are not engaged in the match, we encourage you to take a step back and consider offering something positive. A simple “Thank you” or an acknowledgment of their efforts can go a long way. Respect for officials not only sets a good example for the athletes, but it also helps cultivate a more positive sports culture overall.

If you have any concerns or questions regarding an official’s decision during a match, your first resource should always be the head coach of your team. The coach is the best person to address concerns and communicate with the officials when necessary.

Additionally, the second resource available to you is the USAV online Rulebooks and Interpretations page, which provides valuable information about the rules of the game. This resource can help you better understand the game’s intricacies and clarify any questions you might have.

If you do happen to have an established rapport with an official, and feel compelled to speak with them, always approach any concerns in the form of a nonjudgmental question. Framing your concerns this way shows respect for their role and fosters a constructive conversation.

Finally, it’s important to remember that mistakes will inevitably happen — from both players and officials. It’s natural to feel frustration when calls don’t go your way, but the best way to support your athlete, your team, and your coach in these moments is by remaining positive. Focus on the next play, on the next point, and help the team maintain momentum. This is where your support is needed most.

Coaches and team captains are the ones designated to address any concerns with officials, so parents and athletes can best contribute by staying positive and focused. By keeping the energy up and supporting the team through every moment, you’re helping everyone maintain their composure and approach the game with a calm and collected mindset.

Parents, your role in supporting your athlete and their team is crucial, and we appreciate your ongoing commitment. By following these guidelines on communicating with officials, respecting their decisions, and fostering a positive atmosphere for everyone involved, you’ll help create the best possible environment for your athlete to thrive.

Together, let’s continue to model sportsmanship, respect, and positive energy both on and off the court. Thank you for being an essential part of the MVSA family!

This article was written by an MVSA coach who wishes to remain anonymous. MVSA thanks them for their contribution and fully supports their message of treating match officials with empathy and the respect they rightly deserve.